Hi everyone,
I know it’s been ages since I wrote a blog
entry. We continue to be extremely busy
here and most evenings I fall asleep before I get around to typing a note to
all of you. So sorry.
One of the best parts about staying in one
place for all this time is to see the growth in the kids – both physically and
emotionally. My first set of
pre-schoolers are now in grade 3! My
second wave of them “graduated” to 1st grade in January. Most are doing very well. Yet, I have found that the ones who are HIV
pos. seem to struggle more in school – esp. with short term memory. I still don’t know how any of them learn
much, when the average classroom size is 55 to 60 students with 1 teacher. The alternative would be to open our own
school here at the children’s home, and that is not feasible right now. We have 39 children ranging in age from 4 to
18 and covering preschool to high school.
I suppose we could start with just the lower primary grades & give
the kids a better foundation before moving them to public school, but for now
it’s walk 45 min. each way and sink or swim in the overcrowded classrooms. We have 1 student who failed grade 10 for the
second time, and has now left school.
Academics were not her strength, despite a strong work ethic. She’s our first child to begin the transition
phase with the eventual goal of emancipation.
We’re looking for ways to utilize her talents: love of children and love of God. She took a preschool training course, and is
now taking a discipleship training course in Zambia with a previous volunteer
to the children’s home.
The longer we work with and get to know the
children, the more we are able to see their strengths, weaknesses and character
traits. We still get some
surprises: positive ones such as
witnessing our 4 yr. old learning to speak; watching real learning by a child
we originally thought was beyond our ability to help; watching the 3 girls who
came to us as frightened adolescents who’d been terribly abused blossom into
lovely young ladies. Then, of course we
see some negatives: children who steal
from each other; bold-faced lying; blatant cheating – pretty petty stuff when
you look at the big picture – which is why we have loved being a part of the
programming here.
We’ve been asked to help administer a 2nd
children’s home located 45 min. from here.
The previous owner is now 95 yrs. old & unable to run things. She asked the church to look after things,
but not much happened. So, for the last
3 yrs. or so, things really went downhill.
We’re helping to get things back in good order, both the physical
maintenance as well as restore leadership and structure for the 20 girls living
there. I’ve spend a few days there
teaching, sorting out issues, and helping with school work. There’s lots to be done, but most of the
girls are happy to have someone now in charge, even if it means more rules
& discipline, since it also means they are getting regular food
deliveries. This venture is in addition
to the over 150 children who are being supported in surrounding communities
with food parcels, school fees & uniforms, etc.
Here’s a snapshot of a “day in the life of”
for Mike & me: met with Michelle at
7:30 am to plan the next few days events; prepared teaching materials for
preschool 8 – 9; 9 – 11 met with leadership from a nearby orphanage run
Taiwanese who are Buddhist and vegetarian (both foreign concepts here). Then everyone helped load 12,000 banana
plants that had been sold onto trucks.
After a quick lunch we tutored one group of children for 1 hour; had a
welcoming ceremony for a US visitor; then tutored the 2nd group of
children for another & ended the day at 5:45.
Gotta get some sleep & prepare for
tomorrow. Lots of love to you all. Thanks for all your thoughts and
prayers. Gail & Mike
Hi Gail and Mike,
ReplyDeleteI came across your blog when researching dental access in Swaziland and I would love to speak with you further. I am in the start-up phases of implementing a dental project in Swaziland and I would love your advice after reading about your experiences there (so amazing!). Sorry I didn't know if there is any other way for me to contact you through this blog, but you can e-mail me at bnovelli@siu.edu. Thanks and hope to hear from you soon!
Best,
Brianna